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Dear Daddy (and potential Daddies),
Welcome to my Daddy Dom/little girl blog. Today, I want to write to you about how to find a little girl.
There is no magic formula, no magic place. There is no magical play land where all the little girls like to play. I could point you in the direction of your neighborhood bdsm club or fetish organization. You could find a local dungeon and inquire with the Mistress or the submissives for hire. You could ask your friends. Obviously, you will NOT hang out at public parks and by schools as this is role play and not for “real” little girls.
So what’s the trick? I found my little girl partly online and at a real life fetish social. Many people do hook up online, so much so that there is a whole community dedicated just to online DD/lg relationships. Those are not to my liking however, as I enjoy real life encounters with people - looking a little girl straight in the eye when I speak with her.
Here is the answer: Be yourself. If you have an inclination to be a Daddy, then be one. Wear nice clothes, maybe even a suit and tie. Act like a “Daddy.” Be soft-spoken, self-assured, strong and rugged on the inside. Be a professional man. Cultivate a nurturing air, kindness, gentleness. And be sexy. Little girls like men — not boys — that they can look up to.
There are all kinds of Daddys, of all different ages. I find the best Daddys are those who think about their little girl with affection, tenderness, and love. They are protective without smothering, inspiring without being controlling, and fun-loving. They like to lead, take their little girls by the hand and show them how to do……just about everything! They like to play games with their little girls… including “big girl games.” Little girls like “lollies” and “candy” so be sure to introduce your little girl to those things.
Daddys are also sexy. Not all Daddy/little girl relationships are sexual. But those that are run hotter than molten lava. To push the taboo of a Daddy/little girl relationship is to cross all kinds of forbidden boundaries, which only serves to heighten the prurient salaciousness of it all. To have an open mind and to pursue one’s passion is sexy all by itself.
Daddys - be bold. Find your little girl by being yourself. There is a little girl waiting in many women, a desire to submit, a desire to revert to a time of carefreeness, a time when clinging to Daddy and yearning for Daddy’s love was the most important moment a girl could remember.
You can be that Daddy. And when you do, you won’t ever have to look for a little girl. She will find you.
Good luck in your search.
Daddy Vinnie
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I was asked for a rebloggable version, so here you go.
Transcription:
mad-adam asked: Explain to me the technicalities of BDSM.
well you see you start out with two teams of 11 people, one is the “doms” and one is the “subs”. there is a referee called “the switch”.
then the game starts when the subs give a wrapped gift called ‘submission’ to the doms, and the doms have to laugh like supervillians and crack whips. then the two teams jelly wrestle for half an hour, with points being awarded for lost items of clothing.
after the jelly wrestling there is an obstacle course called “THE ONE TRUE WAY” and during it if a dom answers to anything but MASTER they are disqualified and if a sub refuses any order given them they are also disqualified and sent to the sin bin (where the orgies happen).
then they play the most hardcore game of simon says you’ve ever seen.
then at the end of the game whichever team has the most points is the winner of BDSM and the captain of that team becomes the King of Alternative Sexuality.
the dominants always win because true submissives always give in to dominants.
omg laughing so hard i think i pooped a lil
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It’s well known I fall neatly into the feline box… I’m quite ok with that <3
There are the submissives who are dogs, and those who are cats.
This is where I expose my inner bias, and extol the virtues of the feline. Where I lay down my flag, stab it into the ground and sigh, because of course you can only be one or the other. You have to join the tribe, and whether yours wags its tail for happiness or if you’re on the other side, with the tail swishers, you have to pick one. I like both, but I like cats just a little bit more.
Because the dogs are easy. They love you because you put food in their bowl every day, they devalue your love, and care, because the readyness with which they accept it makes it feel as though you aren’t necessary, that any old automaton could perform the same perfunctory tasks and the dog would love it just as much. There are submissives like that, who submit to any Dominant, who need to submit, because it’s at their core.
The cats require work. They’re never truly yours, and while they’re just as beholden to you as their canine counterparts, they manage to create the air of self-sustainability, that they could just walk out of the door and be just fine, thankyouverymuch. It’s the fact that they stick around that makes you appreciate them, and them appreciate you. The submissive who submits out of choice, who bends the knee because you deserve such fealty.
Except that’s bullshit. You can’t pen people in so neatly, and from one day to the next they could switch characteristics without warning, switch from dog to cat, to lizard, for all I know. People aren’t animals, and animals aren’t even the animals that I’m painting them to be. Generalisations work, but specifics work better.
I do like cats though. And dogs like me. I like them for that.
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That moment when she realizes she has a lot fewer choices than she might have thought…
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…”yessss, you love Daddy’s cock inside you, don’t you sweet baby…yessss, that’s my good girl, push back at Daddy, babydoll, Daddy loves fucking you, baby, making you need more.”… - Sumddy
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I like it when Daddy ties me up so that he can use my wet little fuck hole to make his cock feel good.
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